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A woman sitting on a railing in front of a lake in a mountainous area The Impact of Dysfunctional Childhood Environments Growing up in dysfunctional homes, where emotional and sometimes physical abuse are common, shapes the way our minds learn to process the world. To cope with daily challenges and pain, we often develop patterns of secrecy and deception. When a child is repeatedly exposed to chronic criticism, it feels less like feedback and more like condemnation—a verdict

Check out my latest Mind Files Minute video for a peek inside the OUTSIDER Mind File

A priest inside a church waving his finger as if to say No! As I explained in the Mind Files Minute Video entitled The Spiritual...

Two people forgiving one another For years, I’ve wrestled with the concept of forgiveness. It’s a cornerstone of Christian faith, a...

Exhibitors in a convention room Recently, I was part of an organized event that didn’t go very well, and nearly everyone was angry as a...

Growing up in dysfunction and abuse creates a distorted idea of what it means to be loved. This environment, often characterized by chaos, neglect, and emotional turmoil, profoundly impacts a child's perception of relationships and affection. Children raised in such circumstances may equate love with pain, confusion, or fear, leading them to develop unhealthy attachments and coping mechanisms.

The early experiences we have in life shape who we are. Whether it's a loving environment, a traumatic event, or opportunities for...

Hand with a golden compass in front of a wooded path Healing from child abuse and trauma is a deeply personal journey, often laden with...